realy hurt and upset

[DrCunz]

no understanding the female psyche and I can sympathise with you as an ex pretty much did that to me. Went snowboarding one weekend with friends everything fine came back flat empty bar a note and a few hundred pounds for the rent. Answered 1 call and then told me not to phone again.
A bit of respect and common decency is all thats needed, yeah it's tough to leave but for fecks sake it's easier to actually say I'm off it's not working and to leave on semi good terms. Like the way your friendly with your ex, just decent.
Mmy opinion as a hard hearted basterd is to go feck you get stuffed and good luck but thats always easier said than done.
Keep as busy as you can and friends are always good at a time like this.

[Jared]

cheers for all the positive comments guys

im to nice to just say feck you then lol but the S*!t might hit the fan if she and him turn up at the bristol meet in december i dont think ill be able to keep my cool then

[dida4g]

Whatever you do, please keep your cool. If another guy is involved he may have thought he was getting a single girl.
The only question you want to know is ..WHY?, She owes you that at the very least.

[m@rk]

Whatever you do, please keep your cool. If another guy is involved he may have thought he was getting a single girl.
The only question you want to know is ..WHY?, She owes you that at the very least.

i wouldn't even bother with the why.........
she's gone for a reason
leave it now and move on

[dida4g]

I hear what you're saying but 5 years deserves an explanation.

[James4g]

Id crush his face
And throw her under a lorry

But thats just my opinion

[WELLZ]

Woh wasn't expecting this?

I take it this is Issie were talking about? The one who posts on CL?

Don't know what to so mate, but your certainly handling it better than I would! Hope it all works out! Chin up

[Jared]

cheers guys yea its issie from civiclife mate and im pretty sure shes gone down there with ash (1964) of civiclife


but im gettin there slowly my mates keep poping round my flat aswell so thats takin my mind off things

[HONDAB88]

S*!t bud fell sorry for you i have been there before it hurts and you do feel sh!t but you WILL get over it quicker than you think! as said above keep your chin up. she obviously aint worth a second thought if she can do that to you after 5 years without an explination. plenty more fish in the sea grab a few of the lads and hit the town enjoy yourself forget about her dude she aint worth it. if you do bump into her again at the meet just let it be 'water off a ducks back' if you get me

[Lee4391]

By the sounds of it she didn't deserve you anyway mate. I wouldn't ask questions as to why. I'd just tell her to feck herself basically. Chin up man, Just means you've got more wrench time

[vibe85]

Sorry to read this mate

Who knows what she was thinking, or how long she's been thinking it.

Never blame yourself though bud.

[Jared]

just been told on a feacbook comment i had from a boy in london who knows the boy shes with shes been sayin to them it was a mutual break up amd that it was relly upsettin doin it i cant belive shes sayin that just to mnake her self look good

[tobiasnugent]

cheers guys yea its issie from civiclife mate and im pretty sure shes gone down there with ash (1964) of civiclife


but im gettin there slowly my mates keep poping round my flat aswell so thats takin my mind off things

That ash guys like 18 isnt he ? and lives with his mam ?

Id just move on mate, no point doing him in is there really as its not his fault at the end of the day. Its her.

[Jared]

yea i know that dude ill just have to control myself when i see them at the bristol meet just concentrate on playin catch up with my mates

[HONDAB88]

it will get better for ya dude. we all have bad relationships from time to time... makes us appreciate the good ones that come along.